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   Posted 5/18/2012 9:16 AM (GMT -6)   
Why when I need ppl to talk no one can listen to me even my own mum, everytime when I talk to her mum don answer or avold or just treat it nothing never listen at all, when I talk to her she just talk to my son, if to other ppl will say no manner at all right? Why she don like me why born me out and make me suffer illness and by her, isn't my stress and illness still not enough, if don like me can don stay with me but still wan stay , everyday she must torture me then feel happy, if not she can't pass days, she oredi make till I no fren now still wan make me till die, this world how bad the mother also care daughter when daughter have illness but my mum different, can say like tat( got money give she will care) if I have frens who is rich and always buy food buy things bring her out she will likes the fren a lot,in her brain just wan $$$$$$ no love at all, now finally I understand why my dad was alife tat time keep chase my mum out if the house, bcos she don care about own family yes she care her son is my bro, my bro also don even talk to me since young till now, my bro hate me just like enemy, mum scare of son love son even her $ all with son, how bad the son treat her she still care him, but to me good to her get bully by her, wat kind of world is this? If god say wan take back the world I hope god can bring me along cos I feel very tired oredi....

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   Posted 5/18/2012 2:46 PM (GMT -6)   
Can you and your son move out? Don't you think that it would be easier all the way around? Get a place of your own and live the way you want to with no people treating you badly anymore...

I would think about it. We can't control how others act, but we can control how we react to it. You know what your mother is like, you need to either move out or learn to ignore her and the way she acts. If you thought it would work, you could sit down and talk to her about it. But I am assuming that you already have tried that.

Do you go to any counseling? It would help you to cope with the way that your family is. Basically this is their problem. You can't change them if they don't want to change. It kind of puts things up to you. What you are going to tolerate and what you aren't. I highly recommend you talk to a therapist to help you to cope with this. Help you get your life in order. Become a happy person. It can be done. And it is work. You have a lot of issues going on right now with your family. Nobody deserves to be treated the way that you are being treated. I think you should distance yourself from them. There is more to life than what you are having to live with. You can be happy.

Hugs, Karen
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   Posted 5/20/2012 8:35 AM (GMT -6)   
Hi Karen ..... What you mention I try it b4, also see therapist too but no use at all just give me anti-depressin meds eat or sleeping pill can sleep 2 days,move out I think b4 but no money to buy new house also my mum no ppl look after if I move out, bro don care her so she will end up to old folk home, she can't walk, if ask her go see counsellor she don wan ask her don treat me soo bad also can't, I wish can happy but can't, even now got very funny show or joke I Donno how to smile laugh happy oredi now just noe to cry my tear going dry,frens treat me bad cheat me lie me play me rape me all kind of things happen in me,important is I have no frens so if meet someone can chat I use whole heart treat them good end up get cheat all my saving and body, some ask to help after tat they tell ppl I own them money , some is wan me sleep with them, some frens lie me go out but arrange ppl to rape me, why all treat me so badly I can't understand even my own husband too, outside got china gd, ( now filing divorce) still waiting for it been 4 years ago, since the day born out my life all just is suffering days but I still hang on here, if other char ppl oredi jump down, is not I look open minded or don think is I keep all inside my heart never tell ppl about it so can hang on

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   Posted 5/20/2012 8:44 AM (GMT -6)   
Sweetie,

You need to make different friends. Not all people are bad. I think you are just around the wrong kind of people. My heart aches for you going through all of this. I am so sorry that you suffer so. But don't give up. Hang in there.

Try this free site out. http://moodgym.anu.edu.au/welcome

It might help you some. I hope so.

I wish for you a better life. You have been through a lot. I think you will find good people who love you honestly. It takes time to make friends. But try making new ones. Surround yourself with people that care.

Hugs, Karen
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   Posted 5/22/2012 7:56 AM (GMT -6)   
Thks Karen also ur encourage I will hang on at try to be firm don let myself more suffer and unhappy but frens shd be very hard to make I just stay at home nvr go out even go out also hard to look for it no ppl will make frens to soo ugly gal when I smile can show I have no teeth ( infront teeth )all the teeth spoil all is patch up teeth very easy break it so in here all ppl look at ur look second is whethere rich or poor .

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   Posted 5/22/2012 8:11 AM (GMT -6)   
In jan I was admitted in hospital at tat time I meet a gal so we bcome very good term also she is sick too she need treatment to help her, she suffering of pain backache can't sleep and other too so she keep finding the way to help herself when see her I feel she is very strong gal tat I never meet b4,how suffer she having still wake up go work,last time firstly we meet every weekend slowly can't meet cos she have pain and tiredness can't get to go out, in march I admitted again she work just nearby and tell me after work will visit me, but I noe if she come just is forcing herself to come so I tell her don have to come if can just SMS or weekend then visit me,unfortunate since tat the whole week no news of her, so I feel very sad and cry, after few days I SMS to her no reply too, so I think shd be not longer fren oredi and we just only one months fren only, after dischg she SMS me but from her msg can show tat not soo happy then I dare not say much cos she have Hugh educated me just pri three sch only, we msg about illness and others thus HW also is she recommend to me, I asking too much help from her maybe she don like it but she nvr say, I just her to help me email my lawyer for something , ytd she MSG me ask about lawyer so I say can help me email again but her reply to me let me feel very very sad so I knew not long going lost fren again, but anyway I will pray for her even we not longer tgt or whatever ....

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   Posted 5/22/2012 2:07 PM (GMT -6)   
People come and go in our lives. I am glad that you had the friendship that you had with her even if it was just for a short time. You will meet other people. Maybe she isn't as well as you thought that she was. Maybe her depression is bad right now and she can't help. But I bet that she wishes she could. Just have fond memories of her.

Can you get dentures or fake teeth so that you can smile? Is there anyway that you could get them? I am sure that it would make you feel better about yourself. And it doesn't matter really on the outside what we look like. What matters is how we are on the inside. You sound like a beautiful person. So don't look down on yourself.

Know that you have friends here. I am so glad that you have joined us.

Keep posting, let us know how you are. Don't give up hope...

Hugs, Karen
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