Feeling alone and lost....NEED HELP

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   Posted 6/15/2012 3:13 PM (GMT -6)   
My Boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 3 years., On May 15th, I found out that I had a miscarriage. I have been depressed and sad ever since. On June 12th, I received a FB message from a woman saying she has a 6 month old baby by my BF. I have since broken up with him, but I've been dealing with this alone because I'm so embarrassed. I have been diagnosed with major depression and anxiety.  I don't know what to do. I haven't eaten in 3 days, just drinking wine and crying. I wish I didn't have to experience such hurt and pain after my miscarriage, but I knew I couldn't stay with someone who had stepped out of our relationship.
Please help!!

Post Edited By Moderator (getting by) : 6/15/2012 3:35:36 PM (GMT-6)

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   Posted 6/15/2012 4:42 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi 1981gal...

Welcome to the HW Depression forum. I am so sorry about your miscarriage. That must of been so hard. I dont' blame you for feeling sad. But there are things that you can do to fight this. I would get hooked up with a counselor to start off. And also you need to quit drinking. It makes depression worse. I know it numbs for a few minutes, but it isn't the answer. In fact it is making you feel worse.

I am sorry that you found out that your boyfriend was messing around and had a child. I don't blame you for wanting out of that relationship. I actually suspect my late husband of having a child that I was never told about. It must of been hard for the girl to tell you, but I am glad that you found out now instead of later. You probably feel like you have been living with a lie. That is only natural for what you have been through.

I really think counseling would help you. Many of us go. Don't be embarrassed of what happened. You did nothing wrong. None of it was of your doing or your planning. It just happened. Better you finding out sooner than later. Keep posting, and know that we all care. I did have to edit your post as we aren't allowed to discuss suicide or suicidal thoughts. But get help for this. A counselor or your family doctor is a good place to start.

Hugs, Karen
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