I need some advice:
How can I support my husband through his bouts of depression. I am a positive upbeat person and he is the opposite. Most time he is quiet but not withdrawn. I use to think it was me because I am always trying to find ways to make him happy it works for a while then things change. I can find the good in things he can find the bad in things.
we have been married for 15 years he now wants to questio whether we should stay together or separate. He says sometimes he cares and sometimes he doesn't care. I am finally putting it all together when he's depressed he says things to hurt me but when he's not he is lovable and
easy to please. I am sociable and very outgoing lately he's not. He told me I could move on with my life but he can't and is trying to find his purpose in life. I get confused and I start to worry and sometimes stressed!!! I love him and its hurts me to see him hurting but sometimes I don't knw what to say and when I do say something I have to be careful of how I say it because he will become defensive.. I need some advice on how to handle this.... Please help!!!