Hi everyone. Hoping someone can give me some guidance on this. My boyfriend and I met through a depression support group. He has had a tough few weeks. Tonight he called and said he didn't want to continue to lead me on and was breaking up with me. The more we talked, he said how much he likes me, how wonderful and sweet i am, that he wants to remain friends, and continue to talk and do things together outside of the support group. Said he has been thinking this way for a few weeks, yet this past Sunday HE planned a whole day for us together - we went to his church, back to his house where he made us a lovely lunch, went to the movies, and had dinner with his parents. I suspected that the reasoning may have been a subject that was briefly mentioned between us a few months ago, that he doesn't normally go out with overweight woman (which i am). Tonight's response was that he has a few times, and that was not the issue at all. That the issue is not me at all, he just feels so messed up right now. I miss what we had already and it has only been a few hours! The funny thing is i don't know if i even considered him my boyfriend - to me we were just supporting each other and enjoying each other's company. I don't know what to do??? We are both very easy going and sensitive. He has brought back some of my faith in God, and told me that even through his feeling like this he has continued to mention me in his prayers each day. I feel very alone, no God, no
John. Any advice, suggestions, guidance??