getting by said...
Is there somebody in her family that you can get in touch with, or not? I know that it is hard when you feel helpless in a situation like this. But I am sure just as soon as she feels up to it, she will be getting ahold of you. Have faith that things are going to be okay for her. In the meantime, keep coming here and posting. It will help you to feel better and feel connected with something or somebody.
I know of, her family members. But I don't know them personally. At present, all communication has to go through her fiance. But her fiance has to go through her mother.
The sad irony is, if she had an aneurysm that ruptured, she would indirectly be in the same boat as me. I have had a ventricular brain aneurysm since I was born 45yrs. ago.. Because a ruptured brain aneurysm would explain the massive headache she had. Several days ago, she accused me of using my health problems as a crutch. If she did have a ruptured brain aneurysm, I will have to remind myself to go easy on her when she is well enough to communicate. Because, Regardless of it being a ruptured brain aneurysm, or a brain hemmorhage, she will not be able to go back to work for some time and emotionally, it might feel like I want get even with her, for the remark she made about
my using my health as a crutch.
When I had my six brain surgeries(all before 10yrs.-old), I was out of school, for several months after the surgery. Because, Brain surgery as far as the recovery(and the actual operation), is no where near as simple as say, putting a pin in someone's leg to help the bone.
Post Edited (Chris516) : 7/7/2012 6:45:42 PM (GMT-6)