When he treats you kindly, it helps you to feel better in general and about yourself. But you can't rely on that. You have to feel good on your own. And if he comes along and it works out, that will be fantastic. We want to think that when somebody makes us feel good that that person is meant for us. But that is not always so. We can't depend on that person to always make us feel good. Often when we get to know a person really well, we start to see they're not perfect like we thought that they were. I don't want to sound disappointing, but that happens when we get to know people well. So what you are seeing now is only on the outside or what he wants you to see. I am just saying that nobody is perfect and we can't depend on other people to make us feel better. Do for you, take care of you. If in the future it is meant to be, it will. It is so easy to fall in love. It feels good, doesn't it? Cherrish the feeling of being happy when he is around and accept it for what it is. But don't forget to work on you. And accept that he has a girlfriend. That can be the hardest part I imagine. But it is a fact and you have to respect that for him. I hope that it works out for you.
Take care of you... Be happy...
I had to come back to this because I am talking to you like you are a teenager and I remember we were discussing medicare on another post. May I ask how old you are??? Thank you...
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Post Edited (getting by) : 7/9/2012 5:50:18 PM (GMT-6)