Posted 5/10/2005 8:28 PM (GMT -8)
I wish I'd read this before I sent the email I just wrote. Inside, I know when things are my fault, and I am surprisingly alright with admitting that publicly. But, whenever I attempt to express my feelings, the words always come out wrong. I didn't want to accuse the person I emailed, but rather just inform them of what was going on in my head. I don't think it came off that way. I asked a friend for some advice and he told me something I'm still trying to figure out: he says it is alright to care, just don't get attached. Is there really a difference? And my question for you (anyone, really!) is how do you really stay neutral in a situation in which you are a side?