a breakthrough of sorts

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   Posted 8/30/2012 6:12 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi, my screen name is Display.

i write in here frequently about being depressed and feeling horrible. but today i have a different topic.

i had a kind of breakthrough today. i was not doing anything unusual. one of the things i spend a lot of time doing is playing solitaire on the computer. i usually do not like myself much when i do this - which is a big problem, because i spend LOTS of time doing it.

it just occurred to me in a moment of peace that i need to be way more compassionate with myself when i am having a hard time. i am not sure, but i think there is a lot of self-criticism inside me. and that mean voice does not really do me any favors when i listen to it.

for whatever it's worth, that's my breakthrough.
Display

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   Posted 8/30/2012 6:47 PM (GMT -6)   
I am glad that you realized that. Now you will know to give yourself a break once in awhile. And to be good to yourself.

Hugs, Karen...
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theHTreturns...
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   Posted 8/31/2012 2:42 AM (GMT -6)   
VERY GLAD DISPLAY,

WITH MUCH HEALING COMPASSION 2 U

JAMIE
EMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE PERSONALITY DISORDER,

RAPID CYCLING BI-POLAR DISORDER

REMEMBER TO LOVE YOU. BE YOU AND BE TRUE.

BnotAfraid
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   Posted 8/31/2012 10:00 AM (GMT -6)   
Display!

That is wonderful! You are on your way to breaking your automatic thought process from the past and giving yourself honest and true self-love.

This is awesome! If we don't like ourselves no one can truly like us back. Give yourself all the compassion you can, from a grilled cheese sandwich when you want it to ice cream for breakfast.
Getting in your comfy clothes and curling up for the afternoon or evening with a great book or listening to your favorite music. Whatever brings you a little joy, just a smile, is compassionate to you.

Well done, my friend. cool
Be still and know there is Peace.

Kabir says: "Student tell me, what is God? He is the breath inside the breath". from the poem Breath.
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   Posted 8/31/2012 4:57 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi display,

Happy to hear you had a breakthrough :-)

UA
Chronic Pain, Depression, Borderline Personality Disorder.
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