Posted 5/25/2005 12:09 PM (GMT -6)
O,O,O,O,O.......this is an "old to familiar" story, so much so that I went back to your first post on this. First of all, I don't blame you for getting angry about your so-called-friend calling your BF concerning your meds. That's your business and you business alone along with your Doc. That's why they take the "hypocritical" oath. FIRST DO NO HARM! She is not, I take it, a doctor. Tell her to BUTT OUT. Since she was generous to pass this along with others, reward her by not being her friend anymore.
What a friend you are by buying her a gift even after all she had done to hurt you. Kudos to you, kiddo!
O,O,O,O,O....this is so funny, not funny Ha-Ha but just again O too familiar. You were sluring your words???? I think you and I are cloned. Whenever I have a seizure, I slur my words for sometimes days at a time. My sister did the same thing. I have been clean from pain killers for over 1,200+ days and about 5 months ago, I called my mom and my BUTT-IN-SKY sister told my mom that I sounded drugged up. She is a total female dog. Dammy, as I read on, since I did print this, I can't believe that "friends" or so they say, could treat you so badly. They are not friends. Lets see.....you are crazy and nuts???? My mother who is 84 has a lot of MOM-A-Lees. One is "If you spit up in the air it may hit you in the face". In other words, they better curb their insults cause you never know what can strike you next. What was the purpose of the E mail, just to upset you more. Block them. Don't take anymore E mails fromthem as it does upset you so bad.
This is getting me even mad. You weren't invited to the wedding??? What's the matter, they think you to NUTS to go????? Dammy, forget these people. You have so many friends here. You don't need them. They are not your friends. Another mom-a-lee. Beware of wolfs in sheeps clothing. Why put yourself through that pain and agony. Let it go, hun.
As for being kind to Cathy or anyone else, sometimes we have to look at the entire picture. Things may not seem what they appear to be. You can't see the entire elephant unless you walk around it.
OK....Ideas? I think you are a very brave person. I think you handled things the adult way and in a manner that makes you look like a hero, not a nut case. There are times in our lives when we have to throw caution to the wind and I think, my friend, this is one of those times. Let them go. Let you let them go. Let go and let God. He will never leave you or forsake you. He died for all of us so we could have eternal life. He is the only one constant in my life. I thank Him over and over. What they did to you was wrong. What my sister did to me was wrong. I gave it to her but good. I told her she was a stuck-up, nosey "female dog" and that she didn't know squat about my medical problems. I have Lupus and they all turn their heads. Thank God I live 1,200 miles away from them...all of them. Dammy, I know this sounds so easy to say and hard to do, but with friends like that, you need no other enemies. You are too sweet a person to have friends like that. If it means starting from scratch in the friend department, do it cause the one's you have now are worse than none at all. I will pray for you to have the strength. I will pray for your family especially your Mom. I hope she is on the mend. Remember, your friends re here.
There is no such word as can't. Can't simply means wouln't. Grab as much as life as you can. Future is a long way away for those who don't believe. Don't build a foundation of life on sand. It will take it away with the tide. Love a little more, be unkind a lot less.