My ex and i broke up aprox 4 months ago. We were together for a year and a half. I loved him very much, he loved me. We had a future planned. We thought we were meant to be & everyone around us told us we were meant for eachother. Now, were both young 24&25. Both still immature in ways. & we liked to party alot. We drank alot.. Our relationship was great for the first year. Then we both let ego get in the way, & stopped putting in any effort when we neeeded it most. I'm very stubborn and he;s very stubborn. So it kind of began to become a game of who had the upper hand. (very immature) ... anyways, regardless of our childish games, we never cheated or anything that would cause a major break up. but it just stopped working.. due to our immature fights, and drinking.
We broke up, we were stll in love with eachother when we broke up..
Now, its been 4 months and very rocky!!!! I was so depressed over him.
I blocked and deleted him off facebook, twitter so i could finally get over him.
But every so often he would text me, either something like "come get your things". or something to start a fight.
He'd text me some very nasty things, very disrespectful and being very immature. I told him to stop texting me and leave me alone and he said he would. This has been going on since we broke up (4 months).. On Christmas he texted me a long apology for everything mean he has ever said to me and i accepted. A week later, his disrespectful, emotional abusive text messages started up again. and i said 'enoughs enough already, stop messaging me! we been broke up for months now" and his response was "ill only stop when i stop hearing about you so stay the *beep* in Sackvillle" (Where im from).. Yet he messaged a friend of mine on facebook asking how i was doing?
So i changed my number. Now he's blocked from facebook, twitter, & no longer has my number...
Can someone explain to me this type of behaviour!!!!!!! does he still have feelings towards me but is acting out in an agressive way because he doesnt know how else to show it? What is his deal?
Opinions are much appreciated
I removed a few words out of your post because we aren't suppose to discuss any illegal drugs on this forum. Thanks in advance for understanding.
Post Edited By Moderator (getting by) : 1/3/2013 7:16:44 PM (GMT-7)