Hi HW Friends,
Have a question…
How do you let go of a relationship with someone you’ve become really attached to. The relationship is toxic but I’m still attached, not sure why. He’s very ignorant. We cannot communicate without a verbal fight.
There’re many factors such as first relationship, abortion, etc. that’s may be reasons for my attachment. I’m not sure.
Its 5 years and things are getting worst. I’m suspecting they he’s cheating. I could be wrong but things never add up to what he says. There are signs like communication has changed, we talk less, don’t answer phone calls, cuts off phone during certain times, gets aggravated when I bring up certain topics, not interested, there’s not us anymore, plans for future have changes, and the list goes on and on… Maybe I’m looking at the fine things too much? I don’t know.
I’ve tried ending it before but it never worked out because I would feel the emotional pain and he knew that.
Is something wrong with me? Not sure why I’m so attached. I can never trust him but yet I’m attached and it’s hard to end things. We are both unhappy but neither of us will make the move to end things. Not sure what’s his reason.
I believe this relationship may be contributing to the way I’ve been feeling. Time is going-by and I’m stuck here...
Any suggestions to break this attachment?
Chronic Pain, Depression, Borderline Personality Disorder.
Post Edited (UserANONYMOUS) : 5/24/2013 8:26:50 PM (GMT-6)