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Date Joined May 2005
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   Posted 7/31/2005 10:55 AM (GMT -6)   
I have not been on here in a while and I am sorry. Things have been very hectic and I am not sure what to do now. Since I have last talked to you all my life has totally flipped upside down.
First, my boyfriend of 6 years and I broke up and I guess I moved home.
Second, I was kind of dating another guy (not cheating on the first one) who is more drama than I think that I can deal with. I think that his live in girlfriend/common law wife who sends me nasty emails and calls me and yells at me might have something to do with it.
I am not perfect. I have made some big mistakes in my life but this is too much.
I starting dating this other boy because he was unhappy and moving out - well so was I. Well I did. He is never going to and that is OK too - but have the balls to tell me that.
Back on prozac.
Depressed again,
Thanks for listening.
If I can do anything to help you please let me know.
"Someone's opinion of you doesn't have to become your reality."

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Date Joined Apr 2004
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   Posted 7/31/2005 3:22 PM (GMT -6)   
Sorry to hear things have been so tough. You are so right, we all have made good choices and poor choices in life. The key is learning to accept those choices and live on. Good luck and let us know how you are doing.
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Date Joined Jan 2005
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   Posted 7/31/2005 4:44 PM (GMT -6)   
Hey Dammy,

Thanks for the update. Sorry things are rough right now, but it sounds like you are working through things. It is really hard sometimes, but like Randy says, "every journey begins with one step". You are doing it sis!!

Keep us posted!

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Date Joined Feb 2005
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   Posted 8/4/2005 11:37 AM (GMT -6)   
You life sounds like a soap opera in itself. Men are a pain, however, we can't live without them. Perhaps you need to find a nice guy to treat you right that doesn't have a past or a present with another woman. I wouldn't have said this years ago, but women are just a fickle as men, maybe even worse. They are all "stalking" for a good man to take care of them and they're kids. Breaking marriages don't matter to them. A man can be tempted very easily. Wave it in front of them and BOOM! Cheer up kiddo, and things will fall in place. Pray too!
There is no such word as can't. Can't simply means wouln't. Grab as much as life as you can. Future is a long way away for those who don't believe. Don't build a foundation of life on sand. It will take it away with the tide. Love a little more, be unkind a lot less.

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