Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 5 years. We broke up for a month or so and I was seeing this other guy, during that time my boyfriend wanted me back and I was confused and told him that I needed time to figure out what I want, I never slept with him while I was still with this other guy.
His sister started text messaging me telling me to leave him alone and its not fair and blah blah, she knows nothing about
our relationship, and he had broken up with me in the firs place. I didn't feel I was doing anything wrong as I was straight up with him that I was seeing someone else and need to think. His sister said awful things to me, I never said anything hurtful back as I knew we would probably get back together and I didn't want to create a bigger elephant.
We got back together, I did something selfish and wasn't completely over the other guy and slept with him after I had gotten back with my boyfriend. My boyfriend found out and we broke up again. We ended up mending that and deciding we wanted to be together and work on it regardless because we both love each other very much, this is the man I want to marry, were moving into our new condo in February, we have plans and dreams together.
I understand that they are looking out for him, but he has never been close with them and they never knew enough about
us to be judges. I don't know how im supposed to go to family functions or anything, I am becoming seriously depressed because of it all. I know there are consequences to my actions, however shouldn't those be between my boyfriend and I? I want to mend the issues as I was extremely close with his family prior to all of this. My boyfriend doesn't know what to do either about
it, any advice is appreciated. Please don't bother responding if you're just going to harp on me for what I did, I KNOW I MESSED UP. Big time.
Christmas is coming, his family is being so rude to me, do I go? Do I message them maybe and say something? Or do I ignore them? My self esteem has completely diminished.
Post Edited (ThatGirl29) : 12/11/2014 12:08:07 PM (GMT-7)