Posted 1/31/2015 7:07 AM (GMT -7)
I am sorry to hear that.
I don't know what it was you said to her that made her feel the way she does, but you can get past it. What do you mean by you have 'scolded' her behaviors? I think that's the first thing you have to get past - apologize to her if you think you did something wrong and assure her you've learned from it and will try to change.
If I were you, I would write her a letter. It is a lot easier to get all your thoughts out on paper than to remember what you want to say to her when you see her in person or talk with her on the phone. Tell her how you are feeling, that you are sorry about how she feels and you want to make things work between the two of you. I know this is a risk and it will probably seem a little scary.
You have a choice and the ability to make this a happy relationship. Don't give up. Write the letter, save it for a couple days, then go back and look at it again, and edit if you need to. Tell her truly how you feel. I think she will respond positively.
I want to say I think you are very brave for coming here and seeking advice. I wish you the very, very best and will be happy to help you as you try to figure this out.