Hi all -
I am sorry to dump this all on you but I don't know where else to turn. First, I apologize if this turns into a book but it is a long story. I was dating this boy for 6 years who I loved and still love very much but we were not right for each other. So at 29 I moved back home. Then I starting casually dating this other guy. The one who I knew was a bad idea at the time but it was fun so I did it anyway. He kind of "ran away" for a while to "take care of some stuff" but came back. While he was gone I noticed that I was not having my period. I took a test and it came back negative (GOOD).
Then he and I went to his home town (about 4 hours away) in August and came back on the 19th (I remember because I had a seizure that day). That was the last that I saw of him. 2 days later I went to my OBGYN and asked for tests and everything and he said that he thought that I had a miscarriage. I don't think that he (the father that is) believes me but whether he does or not is immaterial because he has not supported me at all through the entire thing. So I am grieving. Deeply - but not for the guy. I grieve for my ex-boyfriend because he and I are barely friends and for the entire miscarriage thing (which I knew was happening at the time). And I grive because my parents are 85 and 66 and that might have been my final chance for them to see me with a child.
Then there is the money issue. I loaned my credit card to a mutual friend (a guy that lives in my backyard) and the two of them ran up $1600.
I don't want this guy back in my life. But I do want my money. I have no job (seizures), have been denied by disability because I don't have enough credits and, of course, I am too wealthy to get SSI. So it is not like I can afford $1600.
So here is what I want (and if you could please provide it I would SOOOO much appreciate it ) j/k:
I want my money back from this guy. Yes I know just leave it (know when to hold them, know when to fold them, know when to walk away and know when to run) but I need the money and now, of course, I can't find him. He won't answer phone calls.
He thinks that I have betrayed him when I actually stood up for him!!
I want my reputation restored because it has been run through the mud by everyone - his people.
I want a job. I can't go anywhere so it has to be from home but I don't know how to go about it - any ideas??
Does anyone have a work at home job that is actually real??
Please help me. I have got to get some money and some piece of mind or I will lose whatever I have left of my mind.
Please help. Mainly the money thing - I will get over this whole miscarriage thing - alone I guess - but I will survive (but I should have changed the locks and made you leave the key if I had known for just one second you'd be back to bother me).
Please reply - my email is firstname.lastname@example.org but please put HW in the subject or I will just delete it.
Thank you my dear friends.
Thank you so much in advance for your help.
love and desperatly hoping,
Thanks for listening.
If I can do anything to help you please let me know.
"Someone's opinion of you doesn't have to become your reality."
"May those who love us, love us And those that don't love us, May God turn their hearts; And if he doesn't turn their hearts May he turn their ankles So we will know them by their limping"
Post Edited (damwinston) : 10/8/2005 4:12:00 PM (GMT-6)