Trina ... I'd do the same thing. I am with you 110000% on this. I had an uncle whom I dearly dearly love he was an acholic and drug addict this ruined his life long story. He is doing very well now but u remember that he taught me one thing .., integrity and owning your own problems. He would call from jail for one thing . To let us know he wasn't dead and he wouldn't be home ( get a mesg to my aunt etc) he wasn't boo hoo ing to have us get him out. He knew that he did it and now was going to pay for it. He is a contradiction an honest addict. I know huh? But I learned not to lie from him, and to own ones situation this doesn't mean liking it but you still have to own it. This person while I was reading your post I'm thinking " how skeevy "to ask for money to get you out of trouble for something you did! The nerve. Come on. I wasn't raised to handle this kind of person. Actually the way I was raised makes any relationship hard but that's a conversation for later. You are not judging. You are a person with morals and integrity and you should never lower your standards for someone no matter how much you care for them because if they cared for you they wouldn't put you in a situation like this. I'm serious.
Example when I'm short on cash I would never ask my mother in law to buy me a pack of smokes because I know they don't want to contribute to such an unhealthy habit. Think if it that way.
When I was in college a fellow student tried to fight the school and was VERY vocal about
how he shouldn't have to meet the biology requirement because we were all being miss informed. Dinosaurs are a hoax and evolution was not real ... Fine take earth science ... No they are wrong the earth is only 5000 years old ... Not billions. Point was he wanted to change the science requirement just because his belief system came into conflict with science classes. I said just take the class to satisfy your degree you don't have to believe the subject just if you put enough effort into getting through the class as you do fighting to change the way things are done... Everyone is happier. Then somehow my car would be plastered with bible tracts and this person would sit behind me singing Jesus loves me and I couldn't hear the professor. Some people just can't be helped.
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