Do not fret, do not Dispare. I am with you.
My son in jail now for months due to a toxic relationship with my daughter in law mother of my grandchildren and still wants to try with him. He has been clean because he is in jail. For spousal abuse.
The short story yesterday they said they wanted to send him to prison for 13 years. For a black eye. It isn't right. He should never ever put his hands on his wife. Ever. But how many years do the 6 police officers get who arrested him 3 months later. Breaking 6 ribs. And his nose? Two wrongs never make a right.
Shorter story. We can't fix the messes our grown up babies make. "I can't clean this one up for you dude." As mothers we are ready with the wet nap the broom hell even the shovel but there comes a time we can't. I know the weight you carry. I have it too. ( I have raised 7 kids 3 step 4 mine) I know how you are feeling. I can't talk to my husband because he is " cold" we moms say but men just don't have the instinct they can say well it's their fault not mine and sleep like a baby after. We are different. Just remember you are not alone. I found that there are literally Millions of moms out there suffering what we go through we just don't go around saying the somewhat embarrassing things our grown kids have gotten into. It never is a reflection of parenting. But we still take it personal because it's just how a mom operates. I am here for you. Keep posting. Chin up. This too shall pass.
Ps I know a carpenter who is awesome at fixing the unfixable.
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