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Charlie 2
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Date Joined Oct 2004
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   Posted 11/3/2005 1:55 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi, a few weeks ago my best friend and i had a major fall out and despite my greatest efforts the friendship has ended. Believe me when i say i've never had anyone quite like her before, so supportive, loving, kind, caring. Now she says she hates me.
I cried everynight at first and most days too. Then i slowly recovered from it, but now i'm slipping back. I can't imagine a life without her, and when i try i just cry. God i miss her, i'm sooooo lonely.

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   Posted 11/3/2005 2:59 PM (GMT -6)   
Oh sweet girl,

I know this is hard for you. You will make it through this. Do you join into school activities? Maybe finding something new and different would help to take your mind off of things.

We're here for you. We will always listen. No problem is a small one when you're going through it.

Take care . . .


Charlie 2
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   Posted 11/3/2005 3:30 PM (GMT -6)   
Well its a college and activities are rare. I feel that if i try and make new friends they'l think i'm using them. I normally just sit in my car and have my lunch, it use to make me cry when i reaslised what a loner i am, but now i just accept it. I wish i was like all the other people, they're so confident and have loads of friends.

Thank you for your kind words.

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   Posted 11/3/2005 3:57 PM (GMT -6)   
Losing a friend is never easy. Hang in there.
We can respond to irritation with a smile instead of scowl, or by giving warm praise instead of icy indifference. By our being understanding instead of abrupt, others, in turn, may decide to hold on a little longer rather than to give way. Love, patience, and meekness can be just as contagious as rudeness and crudeness.
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   Posted 11/3/2005 11:25 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi Charlie. Any chance your can write your thoughts in a letter to her and she may change her mind. If not, there will be other friends, trust me on this one. I know it hurts but you will find another great friend.

P.S. I lost my best friend last year due to her morals going severly overboard. I know the pain.
Take care, Softy

Charlie 2
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   Posted 11/4/2005 11:13 AM (GMT -6)   
I did write a letter about 2 months ago now, and yes it seemed to touch her inside. But now i'm not sure if it would work, she'll say i'm stalking her or something ridiculous. She's changed loads, i worry about her. I'm so sorry that you've been through a similar thing, the pain is unbearable and i know how you would have felt. If only her heart would open again, how can love turn to hate?

Thanks for the advice
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