Posted 2/9/2016 9:14 AM (GMT -6)
Thanks Karen. It's SSD. The 'not knowing' is what drives me nuts. Reality I can deal with, but not knowing opens the door to all sorts of imaginings. That's the struggle.
As for my daughter, one of the reasons it drives me nuts is all through my marriage, I didn't know what my husband did with his paycheck. He would give me a household allowance and expect me to get everything done with that small amount. Groceries, diapers and formula, the whole thing! Now, my daughter works 2 jobs and it's like pulling teeth to even get her to pay her car insurance! She has Medicaid, so all of her meds are covered. She only has to pay for the supplements not covered under the drug portion of the insurance. She gets whatever she wants, whenever she wants it, but has not paid for any pet food or cat litter! I've talked, yelled, written letters, etc. It will be good for a week or two, but then back to the same old stuff in short order. I'm just tired of it.
She 'announced' in front of my gf that she would be washing the dishes before going to work, and then didn't do them. They are still in the sink! 2 days later! I just want to cry.
Instead, I'll do what I always do because I don't want to live in a pigsty...I'll put on some music and get them done. And the floors, and the bathroom, and the list goes on. Ugh.
multiple surgeries for rotator cuff both shoulders with residual chronic impingement syndrome, ulnar nerve transposition, carpal tunnel release, wrist ganglionectomies/denervectomies/tenolysis, multiple herniated discs, tarlov cyst, whiplash, bursitis of hips, tendonitis, torus, 3rd degree shoulder separation, torn labrum, ovarian cysts, fibroid tumors of the uterus