I'm happy to see you posting again, but sorry your having such a hard time. Caring IS a good thing, but it can really rob you of a lot of energy if you can't put it in perspective. If you can help someone than do it . . . but if you can't help, then please don't burden yourself with grief over it. With chronic illness like Lupus we can't afford to waste any energy. DeAnne had a very good idea. Writing on this forum is actually thereaputic for me because until recently I had debilitating fatigue and being able to post here has really helped. I'm getting help and giving help at the same time.
I hope you are feeling better these days.
Keep us posted!!
In His Grip,
AlwaysRosie "We can't control the waves, but we can learn to surf!"
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