You described my exact feelings. I’m a 28 yo female and I still look for mother figures. And when I do find an older woman that is willing to care for me, I get overly attached to her. My mother is a narcissist and has always been emotionally unavailable and she’s verbally and emotionally abusive to me. So I guess I try to find maternal love in older women since I was deprived of it my entire life. My father was abusive too but I don’t have a desire to look for father figures, only mother figures. It makes me feel so childish having these needs. I feel like I should be over this but it just won’t seem to go away.
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