I dont mind teh clothes being dopped wherever ..i do but its easier to pick them up myself because i do the same thing sometimes .The egshells are completly crushed into the hardwood now and they form a real nice pattern ....SDhe has been on meds for last 4or 5 years and yes she has gone to pdoc and I have gone with her and the docs tell her what to do tell me what to do I try to do as they say but feel she doesnt,maybe she doesnt want to...i dont know but I will say annie you hit the nail on the head when you said you dont blame your hubby if he leaves .Well I tell you some days I want to but I dont I am patient i love my wife and child to death but it is so hard lately...I know she cant help some things and I probably piss her off to but I guess I am waiting for a little of the take in."give and take"...she wont admitt when she is wrong so I just always take blame for everything...I have always been a happy person and now i find myself full of anxiety when I am with her ,doc has me on drugs trying to help me ..I do not like taking them screw my sleep up...oh well I will just sit here and simmer for awhile hopefully it will pass....thanks for the words of wisdom all I apprciate them I really do
God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.