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Sometimes i am me (HT)...
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Posted 2/6/2017 8:37 PM (GMT -7)
sis got some support yesterday. she broke down. she has a therapy and combined financial support meeting next week. i am playing tunes, i reflected in an e-mail to a mod that my own ego at times is a ball breaker, and as an elite member, hate the term, i should have done better. in my frustration with a family member in similar strains i may have been a little too reactionary. yes i could have ignored, that was my fault for not doing so. for this, i apologise. for being me, i do not however. i am an extremely compassionate man, my frustration and expressions are indicitive of my distress with things, life and working out if we put mum into care, etc. sorry if i have been a pain at times. i think the cyber world is a bit chaotic for me, especially with drama. i don't do drama, had enough of it in my years. i am just a passionate man, i shake cages with beuarocats to get things done. i cut through bs and sometimes i am direct.

so, that's that. bar a few odd incidents i have been a good member i believe. i have stuck me neck out too many times, i know, and even i have got stuck in the muck with my posting.

see ya round.
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BnotAfraid
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Posted 2/7/2017 3:59 PM (GMT -7)
"I think perfection is ugly. Somewhere in the things humans make, I want to see scars, failure, distortion."

Yohji. Yamatoto.

I agree with this quote, being ourselves, real, is nothing to apologise for.

The world is not like the TV show 'the waltons', no matter how much we would like it to be.

Best we can do, is accept the following truths.

We are adults, responsible for our behavior, no one else's

We can ask for help when needed

We can not in any way, shape or form control other people's actions or reactions.

Knowing our thruth, know we do the best can each day. Putting kindness, compassion and love out into the world is our challenge to most of our pasts.

When we fall down, we pick our selves up and continue on, stronger for the fall.

Peace
Trina
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getting by
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Posted 2/7/2017 4:25 PM (GMT -7)
Well said Trina,

We are who we are...

Jamie, Yes you have always been a wonderful member. And the whole group of members here is wonderful!

I think the world of all of you.

You really have not done anything wrong Jamie. You voiced your opinion and that is okay. Even if some feathers get ruffled. So don't worry. We all understand...

I hope you have a good day.

Hugs, Karen...
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Chartreux
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Posted 2/7/2017 8:36 PM (GMT -7)
Turtle, please stay! Need you and sending gentle hugz and loads of well wishes...Stay strong your doing good. Hope your sister gets better with her therapy. Turn up some Beatles tunes...
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wearyRAsufferer
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Posted 2/8/2017 8:36 PM (GMT -7)
I think I must have missed something...
I hate drama- but thankfully I missed it
HT you are one good person-everyone needs you here
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Sometimes i am me (HT)...
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Posted 2/9/2017 6:33 PM (GMT -7)
the turtle has gone for that longer walk about looking for greens, his mate bfe is stepping in. turtle got grumpy and stuff. i sent him away on indefinite leave.
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Sometimes i am me (HT)...
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Posted 2/11/2017 4:37 AM (GMT -7)
am just reflecting on myself and the greater world and comments by people, friends and mentors. being on ya own is both bliss and can be depressive at times.....i am seeing that my own complexity of indifference sometimes needs addressing- my contribution is my expression, as we all express ourselves in a unique manner. yes, i am one out of the box, and i kinda like it; being one out the box. at the computer too long, shoulders aching.
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getting by
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Posted 2/11/2017 6:13 AM (GMT -7)
Hey Jamie!!!!!
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Sometimes i am me (HT)...
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Posted 2/11/2017 7:31 PM (GMT -7)
hey mate.
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MyselfRedux
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Posted 2/13/2017 11:07 AM (GMT -7)
My apologies if I offended anyone. Just because this particular topic is something I am very committed to and is a large part of my life, is no reason to post here. I was trying to share parts of my life I was excited about. The information has been removed to email.

Be well, Mr. Tortoise--you always sound as if you are doing the best possible job and making the best choices. It is lovely.

*just finished morning tutoring, and am scrutinizing each word******
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Sometimes i am me (HT)...
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Posted 2/14/2017 7:06 PM (GMT -7)
nothing with any of your posts (myself)
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Sometimes i am me (HT)...
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Posted 2/27/2017 2:37 AM (GMT -7)
still doing the basics. thx for keeping me walkin' karen. needed that reminder. thx to you all. shrinkage tomorrow. errr. my shrink is as complex as me, in a symbiotic manner. he says we have a sort of symbiotic thing going on. trying to adjust to my new diabetes regime. be good, i think of ya all.
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getting by
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Posted 2/27/2017 5:50 AM (GMT -7)
Good luck with the shrinkage... We all need that from time to time. I am glad you keep walking.

Good luck with the diabetes regime. It can be tough at first.

Hugs, Karen...
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BnotAfraid
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Posted 2/27/2017 9:53 AM (GMT -7)
This morning I was reminded of the eternal Bob Marley.

He believed that racism and hate could be over come with music and love being interjected into peoples lives. Be a light in the darkness, he often said.

I believe this is the purpose of many of us.

When down, listen to Bob Marley and ponder. You never know what will happen.

Elephant, aka HT sounds like this Doc, might be good for you in the long run!

Oh, and glad, very glad to here you many speak at your support group. You are point of light for people. Never doubt that.

Peace
Trina
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Sometimes i am me (HT)...
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Posted 2/28/2017 2:00 AM (GMT -7)
thx my dear friends. yes, he is good for me is my shrink. love 2 u all.
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