Posted 2/9/2017 2:55 PM (GMT -6)
So my fiancé moved out 2 weeks ago today, I didn't get the we need to talk or anything.
She came downstairs and said "right and moving back my mum and dads for a bit I need to clear my head, I can go now or tomorrow"
So she left on the Thursday, I asked her why she was leaving she claimed it wasn't me and that she just needs to clear her head.
So she left however the Grief and I went off the rails last week, stupidly texting and feeling low.
On the night she left we hugged and even kissed, so since she has been gone most of her stuff is still hear, she came the other day while I was at work for some more bits but doesn't seem like much was taken.
Iv seen her 3 times since she moved out and talked although it turns out that the issue was me (she never said a word) Iv been lazy and not giving affection (guilty)
Iv out right asked has she met anyone or likes someone is that why she moved out she says she hasn't.
However she is slightly annoyed at me for sending the texts but she does understand that it's hard me being on my own and her family being around her.
So I dusted myself down and have been cleaning up and dusting Iv told her I know I can change and I would like to show her.
She has now said that her head is everywhere and she doesn't know what she wants, however she wants me to text when there is post.
I'm so confused if she wanted no contact then surly she wouldn't want me messaging about post, if she was leaving permanently she has had 4 days to come and get all her clothes she hasn't.
She is stopping about 10min drive away from the house, she came for post and a parcel last night, I said I thought you'd have got it in the day she said I haven't been out anywhere.
Surly If she didn't want to see me then she would surly come and get the post in the day or the following day.
It's all very amicable no harsh words or anything, I feel last weeks behaviour may have ruined any chances of her coming back.
I'm just so confused right now and have no idea what's going on,