Ooops..forgot, just wanted to add, that there are antidepressants that won't mess with your libido..such as Wellbutrin, and I think there are others. Not all antidepressants lower or erase your sex drive. Remeron is another one..have not had any sexual side effects on it. Also, have you tried natural Alternatives such as St. Johns Wort, or SAM-e? I was on SAM-e for about
three years and depression free - I took about
400mg once a day about
45 minutes before a meal. I had no side effects on it. It is a very safe alternative, and has been recognized in several respected Medical and Psychology journals, and has been used in Europe since the 1970's for depression. It was just introduced in the states in the early 1990's. You can visit the SAM-e dot com website for more info. Your doctor may also be able to comment on it. Good luck!