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I understand the loneliness that is spoken about. My husband is a chef, work long hours, even though he has semi retired into health care [hospitals] from restaurants. He works at a large private room building, that all does catering for satelite offices, schools and events for medical personnel. Large organization.
I am 57, hubby and I have not children.
At night, I read. I have 3 favorite magazines. Archeology, Scientific MIND, and Mindful.
I read books. I sell large print books on eBay. So I go to book sales often.
I am teaching myself out to place the piano, slow process, however slowly I see progress and feel proud of my accomplishments. The videos on Youtube do for me that music lessons did.
On weekends here are a few suggestions:
I took up art. Started with crayons, to water colors to acrylics. It is amazing what can be accomplished if a person, sits quietly. Closes their eyes, begins a body scan. What emotions are swirling about in side?
Thinking on these emotions, then clearing you mind before starting, CREATE! Don't think, erase, question. just DO! You will be surprised was comes out.
As for the grandchild. There is a think called SKYPE. It is video calling on smart phones and laptop; note pads etc... It is free to down load.
It is as easy as a phone call. If you can post here you can Skype. You can do daily calls with grandchildren, help them with their home work, just say hi! See them off, before a date, etc...
just ask YOUR kids to set it up on their end and coordinate some times.
A small dog or a cat is a good idea if you are not allergic and like animals. If you care for them.
The unconditional love from a dog is indescribable. I can not imagine like without a dog in more home. A cat, well they can love and be aloof.
I hope this helped in some way.
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