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Date Joined Sep 2017
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   Posted 9/10/2017 8:05 PM (GMT -7)   
So I've been back from my vacation to Orlando Florida for a few days now and things aren't going well. It's a hard one to explain and I don't really know what's happening with me. Basically, I spend the majority of the day in an okay state, keeping myself together and getting through. Then as the day goes on and into the evening I start getting a horrible nervous feeling in my stomach for when I go to bed. Every night since I've been back has resulted in my crying myself to sleep because of how much I miss the holiday I had and how amazing it was. I don't know what to do, because by the morning I feel better again, then it's just a repeat and tears the next night, and when I say tears I mean hours of deep depression. I don't know who else to tell so I thought I'd post on here. Thank you for reading.

Tim Tam
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   Posted 9/11/2017 9:20 AM (GMT -7)   
That's why I'm on this website. To have somebody to talk to.

I live by myself, and I was having, for me, a big problem that I didn't solve very well.

Some years later, I had the same difficulty with the same problem, and I didn't solve it very well. I'm writing down lists, what to do when I have a problem, step A, step B.

One of the problems was, I lived alone, I had nobody to help me with any of the problems. I thought, wonder if there are any placed on the net which would help you with solving problems.

That way, I wouldn't have to leave my house, and I could get some help. One of the problems was, it seemed like every time I typed in, "Problem solving" on the search engine, it said, "Are you having trouble with math?" No.

Anyway, that's why I'm on this site.

You said in your first post, that in the States, you were with a group of people and were doing fine. Now that you're back home, you doing poorly with crying.

Wondering if the difference is, not so much the vacation part, but the people part, whereas on vacation, you are around people. At home, you're alone.

And it's that difference that you miss.

With this hurricane Irma, I'll bet you're glad you're out of Orlando now.

You said, "I don't know who else to tell so I thought I'd post on here."

I didn't, either.

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   Posted 9/11/2017 11:01 AM (GMT -7)   
Perhaps you could join and evening group once or twice a month.

Book club,
Crochet group
cooking club

gets you out of the house, and meeting new people.

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