Do you have people at your house that you're teaching? I don't see how you could possibly do that silently... We have these issues at my place too though. We don't have a separate "office" like we did at our old place, so my guy wants to use the bedroom as the office, but often I am getting ready in there - my dresser is in there. He gets so angry when I say I am using the room, and he huffs and stomps off like a big baby. I told him to go in the closet and take his call, haha. It's a walk-in. I'd go in there if I needed quiet. Is there a place you could go? We have our issues at around 9am typically. I can't help but feel like the entire issue is because he should get up a little earlier (and go somewhere ideally). I work from home so I have to be here.
Then the other day, he really annoyed me because he washed towels, and he left my towel, and all the hand towels, in the bathroom hanging there. Who would do that? When I wash the towels, I wash ALL the towels. I told him I thought it was really thoughtless and selfish, and instead of responding like an adult, firstly, he said that he doesn't need me washing his towel, but then he went a step further to actually say that me washing his towel has caused him problems in the past because he's gone in there and there was no towel. Seriously? Go to the closet and get a towel!!!!! We concluded that I will not wash his towel in the future, and he should still wash mine and all the others if he's washing towels. I can't imagine how nasty his towels would be if I didn't wash them... Sorry, but I feel like the majority of men shouldn't call themselves men, they should call themselves man-babies.
Anyway, just thought I can relate to you situation, and in fact, I've noticed it's part of having a "man" in your life. Sometimes I wonder why I bother with it myself. I also know I couldn't depend on my guy very much. I had to once, and it worked out OK, but I was on my feet doing stuff way more than I should have been. Definitely not ideal but i am doubting any other person would live up to my expectations. Maybe i am the one with the unrealistic ideas... A man wash my towels, that's a lot to ask, even if I've washed their's 100x.
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