Hello, first off I apologize for the bad grammar.
Please help me as I am lost and cunfussed.
My wife of 4 years woke up. Three weeks ago and told me she was unhappy and wants a divorce. We have two kids. So I begged her to give us 6 months with marriage counseling. She agreed but tells me she just doesn't want to be married she in happy.
My. Cunfusion. Before all this went down we were good yes we had fights but we always bounced back. She as been telling me she appriciates me and all I do she tells me that she happy with me she tells me she loves me. And we have each other till death.. We have great sex. Then. One Sunday morning. We were eating and. She tells me she unhappy and wants out. And then tells me all that lovely stuff was fake or her trying to push her feeling aside. I don't know what to believe now.
To understand more. We had a big fight last year. She wanted out but gave me another shot. I have changed completely her words as well. But when ever she got mad at me she always threw in the ibwant a divorce but later told me she only said that in the momebt5 and she loves me and we are good and nothing can break us. . my issues have been chasing her to be annoyed with me.
There was thus guy at her school and they text a lot. The do study groups alone. And are good friends. I have never met the guy and she always was weird when I ask to meet him. She got drunk with friends one night. And I. Stupidly looked through her phone. While she was pasted out. This guy sends her selfies. And they talk sexual things he telling her she as a nice frame and all that crap. I confront her and ask her if there is anything going on she says know and he 36 gross we are just good friends. Ibasked her. To stop talking to him alone so she did only in group chat now.
Later on I was washing her clothes from that drunk night and found a used condom wrapper I ask her about
it and she knew nothing about
it and got mad at me for asking her because she was so drunk she couldn't. Remember. It was a family party and it was a prank her cousin did I found out later.
Any ways I got super jealous and started asking her questions all the time. If she talk to this guy what do they talk about
. I just got really jealous. So that been going on. We have been fighting about
that . during her finakes week of school. Is when she brings up I want out if this marriage. Later. As of yesterday she tells me she feels depressed she is always sleeping. Or playing games and just checking out. Do you think she really want a. Divorce or is there something. Going on with her. Keep in mind we have 2 baby's I world 16 hours a day and she goes to school and comes home to take care of the kids. I help as soon. As I get home. Do you think she just done with everything or is this depression taking over. She been like this before but she always bounced back from it. This one seems like she really. Stepping away from me.
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