Keep making mistakes

Everyone makes mistakes-even your boss.

Has the invites gone out yet? If not, it can always be corrected. If it has, maybe you can notify people of the corrected date via email?

Having anxiety and depression skews our perception of things. Yes, your boss may be annoyed but maybe not to the point that he wants to fire you. It also likely that mistakes like this has happened before.

I don't think you should resign. Wait and see what your boss says.

Post Edited (ForeverPositive) : 8/14/2019 6:47:22 AM (GMT-6)

Thank you both! It really hit me hard and drudged up a lot of the feelings I struggled with last year of being a failure and left me immobilized. I’m better today. My coworkers were supportive. All of my superiors are angry but also missed the mistake when it passed to them for review. My boss has her own issues and loves to tell me how none of these mistakes would have happened last year (before I was working in this position). Brags to people outside our company how much she misses our former employee that I took over for around me.

@Getting By thanks for spotting the connection! Labradorite is my favorite stone
So thankful for all of you in this forum.

I’m so glad you have been doing better too Buena! It is amazing to look at the changes in perspective and reaction over time and see the progress made and where there is still room for growth.
He left partially to persue another degree but also had had enough dealing with the dysfunction and had complained outside of work about it. It’s why so many others have left. Ironically I believe she has a psychology degree and likes to try to manipulate people with her so called knowledge of it (has bragged about this). It’s so hard to try to piece out which dysfunction is mine and which is related to the work environment.

forever

also glad you are doing better

most likely since it passed thru the review of safety net people, it might be rescheduled. This happens a lot in business. Mistakes and oops happen at the highest levels!

I always. asked myself if my bosses were so good at their jobs, why are they so unhappy and mean? Why does my work end up be the buck stopper. Do they not know their job?

Many people in this world are promoted for the wrong reasons.

May I suggest that you put a resume together, don't post in on the internet, your boss might see it and make your job more miserable. However, look for jobs on there internet or search for companies you would like to work for. The best jobs have not opened up yet! Submit resume with a cover letter, better yet, go to the business and ask to see the HR department.

The person to person system still beats out the virtual. Shows character and initiative.

Peace and strength
Trina

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about mistakes, everyone makes them. I find it very interesting that the flyer or information in whatever form was checked by others. Don't they have responsibility like you do, to make sure the info on the flyer is correct? Sounds like some blaming going on.

I have about 30 years experience working in offices. Some are toxic and some are ok, with some toxic people in them. My suggestions would be, seek out those people who seem happy or content, who support you even in your mistakes. It's easy to get freaked out by a boss who is a blamer. But that is just one person's opinion. If she is shaming you, that can make you feel like a failure. So as I said, find the content people and put more energy towards them.

Another situation will present itself eventually where you have to proofread something, and I'm sure you'll be more careful. The more "pairs of eyes" that look at it the better, especially if it is important.

Just my ideas...

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