Posted 9/22/2019 4:09 PM (GMT -7)
Life can be so unfair at times, but I like to think everything happens for a reason.
I'm sorry to hear that your new friendship ended. I do think, however, that this friendship isn't worth it if this person stop talking to you over an unintentional mistake . It sounds a bit immature to blow off someone over something insignificant.
Is it possible that something else is going on in this person's life which has nothing to do with you?
You should go to the harvest festival and sell your paintings. Interacting with people might cheer you up. You might develop new friendship with people you meet there
Enjoy your life and have a bit of fun. Forget about John, his family, and girlfriend. Don't let them take up any more space in your mind. They aren't worth thinking about
Put them out of your mind and heart. Their enjoying their lives, so you do the same.
I was in a bad relationship once. I was so upset and angry and constantly thought about that person. My therapist then told me something I never forgot. She said "...the best revenge is to live your life and forget about them".
You should do the same. Who knows...you may meet someone worthy of your thoughts and affection.
And your not alone, you got your online family and friends here. I know the holidays can be tough, but try to remember that it's just one day. Maybe you can volunteer somewhere on the holidays. A soup kitchen perhaps...helping other people might also ease your pain.