Posted 3/4/2020 10:14 AM (GMT -6)
I can only say hugs, hold on to one another
Go through this together
Don't let it tear you about.
As for the aging parent, not everyone is capable of caring for them
A tragic.loss is one reason, diagnosis of aging parent another
Combined it can be a hurricane
I want to say, with out knowing family dynamics, that you and your spouse have to sit and talk about all the choices and outcomes. Make notes maybe do a little research, take into consideration the relationship you both have with the parent
You mom right?
There is a lot of guilt here, especially when other family is looking at it as
[They lost a son, they have room, it will keep them busy]
Try hard TOGETHER not to be railroaded.
In the end all you have to say you are not abke to do it. It is nobody's buisness why
If they approach like your family did.
I wish you peace comfort and strength