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1039smooth
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Posted 3/2/2021 10:49 AM (GMT -6)

getting by said...
Not a lot. Actually, I went for a mammogram Monday and got a call today that I need to go back for more tests. I guess something wasn't right. Just hoping it isn't the big C. It does run in my family.

Baking a chicken today. Temps warming up outside which is great.

Have a wonderful day Smooth. I hope the gum passes okay.

Hugs, Karen...


Karen,

Do you go regularly for your mammogram? I'm surprised you weren't provided a little more insight. Since that wasn't provided, I'm thinking and hopeful it's nothing major. I just crossed my fingers and toes for you.

Yesterday was warmer than today, but it was rainy. Today is a good bit colder, but sunny. haha! I bet the chicken is great! I'm trying to eat a little healthier. Healthy eating is so time consuming with preparation.

Fortunately and unfortunately, I've got a lot I can worry about, so there are times where I forget about the gum for a bit. Heh.

Hugs,
John
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Sometimes i am me (HT)...
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Posted 3/3/2021 3:58 AM (GMT -6)
Keep strong mate. HT
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Sometimes i am me (HT)...
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Posted 3/3/2021 4:08 AM (GMT -6)
Had my funding review this am. New reviewer, nice lady. I did really well with self
advocating. She said it is a fair plan and will approve it. So i await it.
Went the other day to the employment program, face to face session, meet n greet.
Garden plot today, helped out with another worker and client.
Been hectic. Will do bloods in the morning. Then take my little outside table my mate / bro
found to art group tomorrow, mandala mosaic time! Fine sanding block at bunnings first.
Got a new mattress topper, starting to help. Fri morning, pain mgt clinic, 8.30am. errr.
Had to go through some other difficulties/stress and hell with sis.

Keep strong, HT
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getting by
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Posted 3/3/2021 4:57 AM (GMT -6)
Thank you HT,

Thank you Smooth,

I used to get regular mammograms but missed a few in the last six years or so. I was supposed to get an appointment a few years back and somehow got forgotten and I let it go as I was sick of them. My fault.

You both sound good. That makes me happy.

Hugs, Karen....
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1039smooth
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Posted 3/3/2021 9:21 AM (GMT -6)

getting by said...
Thank you HT,

Thank you Smooth,

I used to get regular mammograms but missed a few in the last six years or so. I was supposed to get an appointment a few years back and somehow got forgotten and I let it go as I was sick of them. My fault.

You both sound good. That makes me happy.

Hugs, Karen....

Karen,

I think my mom still has pain from a mammogram years ago. I'll continue to hope for you. Let us know when you go in and all that.

Not doing as well today, but I know I do at least a little better when people I care about are doing better.

I talk about it all I can with people, but I basically ended it with her last night. I've felt nothing but guilt and sadness since. I thought some weight might be lifted off my shoulders, but it's heavier than ever. My best friend asked I give it a day and not respond to any of her messages. She told me if I'm not going to fight for this, she won't come back. I just told her to give me the day or whatever to think and that it was the hardest thing I ever had to do. She sent a Snap over Snapchat this morning, so I'm interested to see what it says.

I dragged myself out of bed and to work because I feel that was the best thing for me. Reached out to an old therapist I was referred to by work. Struggling but trying.

John

Post Edited (1039smooth) : 3/3/2021 8:26:10 AM (GMT-7)

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getting by
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Posted 3/3/2021 12:07 PM (GMT -6)
Hi John,

I think you are doing the right thing. I think you need the time to think. No need to rush. Ultimatums, I don't like. It takes two, not all one sided. Benefit of a doubt from time to time. On both sides.

I always believe if something is meant to be it will. But that could just be wishful thinking on my part.

I am glad you went to work. Keep your mind busy.

I will keep you posted on my test results. I am basically keeping my mind busy until the time comes to get this over with.

Take care John and everybody. Have an awesome day.

One day at a time...

Hugs, Karen...
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BnotAfraid
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Posted 3/3/2021 5:08 PM (GMT -6)
Smooth
If I had a $ for each piece of gum I swallowed, I would be rich.

Never got held up anywhere..

Karen,
You will be good, hubby and Luna need you
To much...
Then there is us, small loving community ❤

Jamie, you are so BUSY.
Must be nice to feel like one of the community. Nice Job mate !
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Buena76
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Posted 3/3/2021 8:45 PM (GMT -6)
Karen,

I used to get called back for repeat mammograms, ultrasounds and stuff for years until my doctor asked what in heck were they looking for and I went back to regular yearly exams. Sending out positive vibes for you.

My kitten had surgery to fix his broken foot bones this morning. They are keeping him overnight. Now, this would be a day surgery for a human. Of course they want to discharge him tomorrow morning and I work all day. I'll have to get him after work - I hope they don't charge me much extra. I have spent so much on pets in the last 6 months - it's ridiculous. I signed Della up for pet insurance. Now she should be healthy for the rest of her life.

It was 61 degrees in Denver. Della and I went to my favorite dog park where the dogs can play and the humans can walk laps - 3 is a mile. Snow tomorrow. Typical spring, but I'm not complaining, especially since it's lighter in the evenings.

My work hours got cut in half for April - I am trying not to freak out. I thought I had been hired back for a regular schedule. Can anybody think of a good side gig (besides being an Uber driver)?
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getting by
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Posted 3/4/2021 4:03 AM (GMT -6)
Thanks Trina and Kathy,

Kathy, I am sorry about little kitty. I hope he heals well. When I was little, my mother stepped on a kitten's foot. IT swelled up real big. But they never took him to the vet. As I remember he was alright, but I felt so badly for him. They never took any of their pets to a vet. I made them when one dog got in a dog fight and his leg got broken. It came out all crooked as they waited to take him in. Poor boy.

I hope you all have a good day.

Trina, you are a gem.

Hugs, Karen...
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BnotAfraid
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Posted 3/4/2021 6:19 PM (GMT -6)
Aw Karen, thank you so much.!
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BnotAfraid
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Posted 3/4/2021 7:26 PM (GMT -6)
I did  Some  Deep soul searching the past 3 days.

Today,  While waiting to go in  for endoscopy  one of the nurses asked if I
Still do self harm. I said no.

She had scars herself...

It was late  morning.  We talked about lots of things.  The biggest was not taking advantage of support, here at HW!

I KNOW I don't share. Years of being a manager. Than taking care of others who needed more.

My intention is to lean on the few friends I have I myself complain when people from my support, only call when they need something n.

I am not quite this bad.

Although, I think I am helping. Throwing out what I do, in any situation with out being asked..

How annoying!

I do not need to prove my worth any longer.

Very annoying conundrum
So  I'm asking everyone to bear with
During this  change.
Thanks
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Chotti
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Posted 3/4/2021 10:31 PM (GMT -6)
SO glad to see some folks checking in today 🙂
It has poured rain all day, ugh. Still some snow laying around but now we get the mud and very soggy real estate.

Karen ..Reminds me that I need to make appt for mammograms . The newer mammogram machines are so much better than the older ones no smash and hold in pain. Not a pinch 🤏.

Trina it’s always those who give more to others that receive much more in return than the constant needy takers. There’s a fine line between help /support and those that drain the life out of others on the take take take. That’s is why most groups can be frustrating for the same person pulling at everyone’s energy constantly and no sense of return energy ... give and take when a good balance is respected by members which is part of the groups success. Sometimes rules in place can protect you from the greedy attention seekers.

Ht ... it sounds like you are busy. Painting gardening and love mosaics. Wish I had your energy. Sounds like you are doing great 👍. That is really good to hear! Cheers...

Been really sick the past two weeks with Pleurisy, its an inflammation of the pleura, the membrane that lines the outside of your lungs and the inside of your chest . Every breath was so painful and a sneeze would send me thru the roof. I could barely move a muscle. Been on antibiotics and a lot better now. I haven’t been that sick in years. I think it was the extreme cold weather we got all of a sudden from warm to cold temps that I caught a virus somehow. Haven’t been near anyone not sure about this infection.

And the not so good news is my 47 year old nephew passed away last week. He was very similar in many ways as my son who passed away from alcohol induced heart attack. AUD-Alcohol Use Disorder and bi- polar my son faught that battle since a teen. My nephew too since a teen had a disorder called character disorder and developed AUD in order to cope. They were so dearly loved and will always be in the hearts of family left behind always remembering the good memories . I lost my sister last year a few months before my son died, and now her son is with her. This past year has had so much sadness for my family. We were all so close my sister and our children all grew up with each other in CA.

On the brighter side my oldest son is doing great and his son is in Columbia training for the world competition sport of in-line skating. His thighs are huge the size of a basketball. Masking is always a priority for them to train and stay safe. I hope he finally makes the team. He has trained since grade school.

Buena, very sorry about your kitty. Sending healing blessings for a full kitty recovery. It’s so hard to watch them suffer. I’m sure you are a good mom and your kitty is so lucky to have you. Your dog and kitty will bring more joy and nice you got out with your Della. Last year a raccoon caught my Linx kitty. He had a injured foot and surgery and two weeks of antibiotics and pain meds. He recovered I’m still recovering from the vet bill. Yikes. They are worth it so much happiness in return.
I lived in Denver for over 20 years and I can honestly say I don’t miss the snow storms. The weather in spring is crazy 65 degrees one day and 30 the next. The hail storm in 1989 hit a 13x15 sq.mile area wiped out amusement parks houses cars even the airport shut down. All our cars had dimples all over them from the hail that were the size of a golf ball. Every home in that area hit by hail had to have their roofs replaced. It sounded like we were in a war zone while those huge hail stones hit the house. My neighbor had lightening go thru the second story of one corner of her house to the opposite side to ground floor. Wiped out that whole area of her new home. Not to mention the crazy cotton picken truck drivers that would race by cars on slushy highways leaving a huge wave of snow and ice that was so high would bury the cars and blind the drivers. However, they do have sand and plows equipment that generally keep up with the snow and keep the main roads and highways clear. Boy I wish I had a phone in my car back then...had a very close call , very scary.

Buena your question about taking on extra work... have you thought about grocery shopping delivery . We have the nicest grocery shopper. She is great... she does 2-3 in a day and chooses the days and time she works. She also has another job in real estate.

Hugs and 😎 good vibes to everyone...
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getting by
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Posted 3/7/2021 6:16 AM (GMT -6)
Hi Everybody,

I hope you all are doing well. Cold here this morning but we are supposed to get a warm up starting today. I am so looking forward to that. Tomorrow I get my diagnostic mammogram and will find out what is going on.

Chotti, yes, the machines are much better than they used to be. Seems like they don't squish you quite as much.

Not so much going on, just listening to music as I always do. Going to start breakfast soon. I eat about 8:00 am.

I hope you all have a good day today. Soon it will be spring. Except for Jamie who is going into autumn. I hope it cools down nice for you Jamie.

Take care all...

Hugs, Karen...
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BnotAfraid
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Posted 3/7/2021 3:30 PM (GMT -6)
Hi everyone

Chotti you certainly are riding the waves nicely
Painted this morning, very cathartic
Thanks for posting everyone!
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pitmom
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Posted 3/8/2021 4:55 PM (GMT -6)
Hello all. I'm just a little excited because I finally found 2 chairs to use at the dinette table that I really like. They're upholstered with nice cushioning. I found them at the Habitat for Humanity ReStore for less than fifty dollars for the pair! They go nicely with the artwork I picked up at the consignment shop last week. Today, I was on the hunt for new curtains. I use shower curtains because there are 5 windows in my little living room and the fabric covers the expanses nicely. Leaves of yellow, gold, green and gray...the incorporate all of the colors I'm presently using and they make the room look so sunny and warm!

My two red amaryllis bulbs have buds that are just starting to open and I have another white one coming up behind those, too! I'm glad they're not all blooming at once...I get weeks and weeks of color and fragrance!

The golden crocus are open...but when they're closed...the look like tiger stripes! My tiny purple and white tulip crocus are also blooming...I just spotted them today. The garden is coming back to life! Our daytime temps should be in the 60's by the end of the week. Whether they'll stick around is anybody's guess, but I'll take what I can get!
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Chotti
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Posted 3/9/2021 5:15 AM (GMT -6)
Oh.. I had posted and pushed submit post button and somehow it lost connection.
Cant remember what I posted so just post a note to everyone.

Trina.. Riding the waves is one way of putting it. We all have had to navigate through tough times and remember that it’s only temporary. We are all survivors, strong and willing to stay a tight community as we share our ups and downs.

I go in Friday to get the COVID vaccine. It’s been really tricky getting appt. . Hopefully by summer everyone will have the vaccine and see our families at least.

Everyone stay safe and strong,

Karen hi and has the snow melted ? It’s all melted here.

John do you have seasonal depression? I am sorry to read what all your coping with now. Good to go to work and stay busy.

Hi HT.. stayin busy! Sorry problems with sis.

Pitmom chairs sound really cool. Great finds come from some of the most oddest places.

The daffodils are daffoling, tulips are looping, peonies are budding .... the pollen is forming on the forest trees soon we will be covered in yellow pollen...time to get out the power washer. UGH😱

Stay well and strong...
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getting by
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Posted 3/9/2021 4:23 PM (GMT -6)
Hi Chotti,

We still have a good amount of snow but a lot has melted. There are a few spots of grass in the yard, or maybe I should say dirt. But it is a good sight!

It was wonderfully warmer today and I am happy for that. I know March can be tricky though and we could get cold weather into April. But for now it is awesome.

No flowers coming up here but I am enjoying my orchid. And my anthurium.

I hope you have a good rest of the day.

I hope everybody has a good day and a good week.

Hugs, Karen...
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GreenBeans
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Posted 3/10/2021 12:28 PM (GMT -6)
Ever have one of those days, where you wake up in a foul mood, and no matter what you do, it just lingers on?

It's sunny, clear, low 70's, my knee with the meniscus tear feels good, and I have no obnoxious chores I must do. I do need groceries, which is not my favorite thing. I was thinking of cooking tonight (again not my favorite thing) as it's my 19th anniversary... which I think my partner has totally forgotten. I need to cut my fingernails, a weekly task I am tired of doing. All trivial stuff. Well, I do want to schedule a Covid vaccine, but my state (Georgia) seems to be the slowest in that regard. This is my 52ond week of lock down. I could use a movie in a theater, some live theater, a museum, a garden tour, an arts/crafts show, something.... ugh.
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getting by
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Posted 3/10/2021 3:42 PM (GMT -6)
Take that frown and turn it upside down. You have much to be thankful for.

I understand how you feel though. Being cooped up in the house for a year. And going out can be so distressing wearing a mask and worrying what is going to happen.

I go out very seldom. And when I do, it is usually to the doctor or therapist. If it is convenient I shop if I need. I am actually going out to get my hair done. I am hoping other people wont be there. It is only about two blocks from my house, but I still get anxiety. That is from not going anywhere.

I think things are going to start to loosen up Lynnwood. I think we will have a better normal within a year. Which seems like a long time still.

I hope you feel better and I hope your partner doesn't forget your anniversary. 19 years is a good bit.

Keep hanging in there, things will improve.

Hugs, Karen...
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BnotAfraid
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Posted 3/10/2021 10:52 PM (GMT -6)
G. B.!!

Live theater! I am 30min from Philly, plus 2 good ones here in South Jersey

I have a promise to keep to my self. Last Fall I was going to start going to matinee
During the

We will see what happens. Whole new world!

Pitmom. Sounds like your garden has grabbed spring by tail!
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GreenBeans
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Posted 3/10/2021 11:04 PM (GMT -6)
Thanks, my mood finally lifted. Seems it was prompted by yet another friend having gotten an appointment for a Covid vaccine, (and in the process cancelling an appointment with me), while I was feeling rather hopeless about ever getting one myself. Another friend pointed me in the right direction and I have an appointment next week. I have only been to the grocery store in the early (sparsely populated) mornings for over a year, and sometimes on weekdays gone walking (when my torn meniscus would allow it) for the last year. Been petrified that even a minor case of Covid would knock my Lupus out of remission, and I had so many Lupus friends that died that... well, I just didn't want to think about that. Feeling safer and more hopeful tonight. Thanks!
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getting by
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Posted 3/11/2021 5:37 AM (GMT -6)
I am so happy you are feeling hopeful now Lynnwood. I hope you get your vaccine soon. I am not yet 65 so it could be awhile for me. I keep looking.

Keep hanging on. Things get better in many ways. Stay positive.

Hugs, Karen...
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Buena76
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Posted 3/11/2021 10:15 PM (GMT -6)
We are supposed to get a huge snowstorm this weekend. However the forecast up here is anything from 12 to 58 inches. So helpful. But I am ready for a 5 footer. We had a 6 footer in 2003 that we survived just fine. Today I went to Walmart and stocked up on toilet paper ( not panic buying - I was out), butter and Easter candy.

My mood has been up and down depending on my work schedule. I seem to have turned into a float person instead of having a regular gig. This makes it hard to plan for both the immediate and long term future.

My kitten's foot is healing well. He limps along pretty fast on his cast. He probably thinks this is his new normal.

Well, off to bed. Take care everyone
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Posted 3/12/2021 2:08 PM (GMT -6)
Be safe from the snow storm Kathy. That's a lot of snow in the forecast. Even the lesser amount.

Take your job one day at a time. Try to just focus on one day as it comes. You may even want to find a different job if this one doesn't come to your liking. I know the feeling though when you are used to a certain position.

I am glad kitty is healing well. You seem to love animals and that is a plus in my book. I love animals too.

Take care and have a good day.

Sunny here but windy and kind of cold. But I am looking at it from inside so that isn't too bad. At least the sun is out.

Hugs, Karen...

PS I finally got set up for an appointment for the vaccine. I get my first shot on the 19th. Yay... I think...
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Posted 3/13/2021 11:59 AM (GMT -6)
Hi everyone

I have had some serious issues pop up.

With my one track ability in thought and a ction, I must excuse myself fromThe forum for now.

I thank you Karen for your compassionate support and understanding.

Wish. All of you strength and peace. Be well

Trina[

Post Edited (BnotAfraid) : 3/13/2021 11:04:50 AM (GMT-7)

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