brownleaf,I know she loves me ,and yeah I stand back for sure when required ,but always check in on her to see if she wants to talk, just to let her know I am still here,she just seems to be down more lately ,gets tough at times.
els ,thats pretty much how I feel lately,I think she has the hostility thing going at me but in a few days she could be the very best and it will be as if nothing ever happened.You are so right about
pretending she never said it comment its not fair ....but I gotto live with it ..i am 32 and feel like I am an old man at times dealng with all of lifes curves here .
Ann,Iknow she is pushing me away and not realizing that she is doing it and I dont usually let myself get to far away but sometimes I ask myself if its all worth it or not ..so far it has been.You should for sure write your thoughts down but dont share them all with your husband ,some of the stuff I read i wish I didnt but its to late to dwell on that...tommorow is a new day ,I live one day at a time ,that way stress doesnt get me ....that being said thankyou all for your kind wordsand I hope you all have a good day
God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.