Ditto On agreeing with elisha,
You are so much better of a person than you aunts and uncles ,You dont need there bull.... in your life .Just concentrate on your family and dont worry about
the extended family..as they are the ones with the issues .I have a similar problem with all my in-laws and the way around it for us was we cut them out ...stopped visiting etc...it has helped with my wifes anxiety/depression ..they are very critical people and pick everything apart..something we dont need in our lives ...
I really hope you are feeling better,and try not to be so hard on yourself you and your son did nothing wrong .
God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.