Hi Rydstrom, I wanted to welcome you to Healing Well forum. We are happy to have you. I dont have children so I may not be the best person to give advice to you here. Sorry. I am sorry about
your husbands illness, I am sure it is a stressor for you both. It does sound like you are doing everything that you can by stopping your meds and seeing a counselor when your trying to have a child. I do know that their are some antidepressants on the market that are safe to take while pregnant but physicians typically dont want their patients on any medications for the first 3 months to insure safety of the child. Hang in there and in the mean time we are here for you. Take care...