Again, nobody is "totally"
open; I see those only in the realm of medical and "more common."
Whether folks choose to admit this fact or not ... not one person does not feel the reluctance of "telling all" when you get into individual/independent issues and experiences; whether it/they be day-to-day, or one-time-only "tremendously painful traumas."
If anyone tries to imply otherwise .... uhhhmmm ..... you do know ........
...... so not to worry.
Life is not "always" a rose garden, it's real life ... for everyone. There will always be trials and tribulations ... but it's all important to also recognize the blessings! The good, the bad, and the ugly.
And that ... good and bad, (please choose good) ... is a fact of LIFE!
No sugarcoating, however, we can ... in fact ... make good of all experiences based on perspective; however we simply cannot pretend we are "immune" from pain, thus denying our humanity ... uhhhmmm ... because that's bull ..... or better said, "fake it 'til you make it?!" A temporary solution. Choices ... choices ... choices .....
...... best left and/or given the long term consequences (there always will be).
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