Hi pudding, welcome. Im 38 and finding it hard to get back into life sometimes also, dating, ha....chicken ;) but they had some good ideas, not only b&n but libraries have things too, we have two book clubs at our library, and i teach diff computer classes and such, but i know its hard to get out in the world. But ive taken up meditation, which has helped, yoga or anything to that effect, writing is also something ive tried to do lately.....maybe someday ill be brave enough to share with more than one person what i write lol. Take care and good luck, you will meet many great ppl here :)
" Dwell not on the past. Use it to illustrate a point, then leave it behind. Nothing really matters except what you do now, in this instant of time. From this moment onward you can be an entirely different person, filled with love and understanding, ready with an outstretched hand, uplifted and positive in every thought and deed."