I completely agree with Victoria.
I am so sorry for everything you're up against. You have put your family first and have done well. Do not stop now. I promise you that the world will not crush you. You will survive.
With your niece and her baby. That girl is ripping herself apart. Call her once more. Then leave it. Your neice is family and she needs you whatever her decision.
Post Edited (honey) : 7/19/2006 9:03:02 AM (GMT-6)