Thank you all!!and els we dont know what she has exactly as she was supposed to go to a pschiatrist but failed to do the follow up appointment ..she did see him and he put her back on effexor ( note to all on effexor GO OFF IT SLOW)if you do go off it .Effexor has been the only thing that works for her .
On another note she told me she started to cut herself the other nite ..she hasnt done that in over 14 years and I asked her why she did it ...she said she regretted doing it afterwords because the pain she was trying to suppres at that time is now replaced with the pain in where she cut so she is upset at herself for cutting ...hopefully she wont do it again .
The last couple of days have been good for her (she Is on a good high spot for now)hope it stays there ...
chuckle ..this is where i come for my "therapy"a good vent is all I need once in awhile
atedogs ..thanks for the well wishes ,and if anything I write helps others I am happy aftre all we all come here for help eh!!
counter clockwise ..yes I have read many books to tyr to understand
victoria,your story is full of advice thanks
alittleunwell..I tell her the same alll the time ...as does our daughter
janet...our doc is a quak but she is all we can get as there just are no docs around here
again thanks to all i really do appreciate all input
God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.