Hi boonutl, Welcome to Healing Well forum, we are happy to have you. I totally agree with Rosie in the respect that the first person that you have to look out for is your self. You have to work on reclaiming your self-respect and independence. You said in your post that you have been off of Wellbutrin for "nearly two years” what made you stop taking them? And do you have a diagnosis of depression / major depression? Just these factors here could intensify the feelings that you’re having now.
Hi hun, I know exactly what you are going through, you sound so in love with this person.
It's difficult but you should consider cutting the calls down and iving him the space to think things through.
You could send him a letter apologising for the calls and tell him how you feel about him?
I hope you get back what you want so much!
Good luck with everything...