i feel so sorry for this man to be thrown away from her like that after spending some 13-14 yrs with her, and her being the wicked witch of the west so to speak, i wrote him a nice letter saying how sorry i was to learn of him suffering and having to leave her house and into an apt. at aged 80....
i want to reach out to him somehow. i want to know if any of you think i should do this to talk to him on the phone, for i have his number.
i think he is on my side and i am sure that he thinks she is nuts now.
tell me someone how i should handle this, should i let sometime go by before i reach out to him , but even so he is 80 and time is of the essence.
i want to think that i may have some words to help him get by this time for him now.
He doesnt like her that i know....or her actions and probably sees how she really is after all this time.
she will never know what a nice man she had to throw away from her life. she has thrown away so many people in her life and drove this family into the ground single handedly for the last 40 yrs.
please do not suggest a shrink for me to ask as they would say well what do you think you should do? they are only rhetorical.
i feel this man's psychic pain from her and want to be of some kind of comfort to him even if it is in a small way somehow.