the guy i fell in love left me for someone else and even though he confessed he still loved he had to figure out how it was to be with this other person and i understood that but its hard cuz even after so long i still love and want to be with him. we had deceided not to speak again yet he emails me and tried to be friends yet doesnt understand why and gets upset. i believe he is seeing someone and i would love to be friends with thim yet i can't but i also can't stand him being mad at me. i dont' understand why he emailed me if he has moved on with someone else.
While I am no expert regarding loving another (and I have always had problems inter-reacting with the opposite gender), please let me share what little I have learned from a long and tiring life. Love is a very special thing, usually comes once (true love) and does not in any way involve many different partners. While this person you are infatuated with may say he loves you, his actions do not.
You need to find that special someone that lightens your day, not cause worry and concern at night. Please do not allow someone to use you. GOD's greatest gift to man was a woman (and children). Please think long and hard before allowing yourself more heartache. Search for that special person that will answer all your needs and desires.
Life is too short to do otherwise.