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Date Joined May 2005
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   Posted 9/16/2006 11:41 PM (GMT -6)   
I don't even know where to begin - especially after reading the post before mine as my issues seem so trivial.
First, I haven't been on this site in a year and I don't know why. It is not like the depression went away or anything.
I am tired of feeling like this.
The most important thing, to me, right now is that the gyno called and my pap test came back abnormal and he thinks that I have cervical cancer. Great. I have to go in on Tuesday and get a "more in depth" test. How much more "in depth" can you get in that area?
Second, I met a boy (he is 33 so I guess a man) that I really like but it doesn't appear that he likes me which bums me out. There is another boy (he is 29) who does appear to like me and guess what - I don't think I like him as more than a friend.
I really like the first boy but if I keep trying then it will never work out so I have to not try - at all. Right? Isn't the fun supposed to be in the chase?
Other than that things are OK although I think I am going to talk to my doc about prozac. I have taken it before and I think I need to be back on it. I am not suicidal because, heaven forbid, that would take energy which I don't have.
I just want to find some good friends - guys or girls to be friends with but I think that I am going to need medication; however I fear it will react poorly to my seizure medication.
Any ideas? Opinions?
What do I do about these boys (I sound like I am 12 when I am actually 30)?
Same story, different day.

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Date Joined Aug 2006
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   Posted 9/17/2006 11:28 AM (GMT -6)   
First let me tell you your issues are not trivial. yeah An abnormal pap does not always mean cancer. The followup is I think a colposcopy, it hurts and you might want someone to drive you there and back home again. I get abnormal pap smears so very often, it sucks! I truly hope yours is not cancer and hope you'll let us all know!
As for the boy situation kinda sounds like fun, maybe ask boyfriend #1 out to a movie and see how he reacts. However, if you do the asking be prepared to pay for the date.
As for the medicine issue I guess I would say just talk it over with your doctor.
Hope you feel better soon!

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Date Joined Jul 2006
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   Posted 9/17/2006 12:17 PM (GMT -6)   

Yep .. "abnormal" results are always scarey.  Get retested asap and clarify what you are dealing with.  My granddaughter got an abnormal pap reading recently and we all held our breath till we got additional info - turned out to be some type of virus that needed a big dose of antibiotics.  Big sigh of relief!

See your doc about getting back on meds.  You, better than anyone, know when you feel yourself slipping and are in need of a little help. 

As for relationships ... I truly understand the need for male And! female friends, but would encourage you to keep looking for that mutual attraction so necessary for an intimate relationship.  Boy friends come and go; your gal pals will be there for you.  I'm not sure there's any such thing as "Mr Right," but there's gotta be more then 'best choice' from a narrow field.    Expand your field.  :-)

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