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Date Joined Dec 2005
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   Posted 9/17/2006 1:44 AM (GMT -6)   

I dont know where or how things went sour.  My husband stands by me but is so frustrated, I dont know how long he will hang on.  I seem to be so good at playing the "poor me, victim" role, and I hate it.    I dont seem to find any happiness in anything, except for my two toddlers and the sad thing is my oldest tells me " mommy, dont cry, dont cry" - she's two.  .  I'm lost, I dont know what to do.  What scares me the most, is I do not know how I got here.  Its been recommend for me to go to counseling, but from previous posts and my own self doubt, I just dont feel like that would be the answer.  Do I go? Do I try and solve my own issues?  Right now my "solution" is to have a drink or two or not the right answer.  All I want to do is run away.  I need to face my issues, and I am scared. Why? wont talking about things make things easier?  

Please tell me some one else feels this way... 

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Date Joined Jul 2006
Total Posts : 1123
   Posted 9/17/2006 11:52 AM (GMT -6)   

Welcome to Healing Well.

Yes, you need to see someone.  You'll feel better just telling a professional what is going on in your world.  Start with your OB-GYN or Primary Care Physician - whoever you are most comfortable talking with - and be honest, tell them how you feel, your husband's response, the effect on your little ones, and whatever else is happening with you.

We're here to listen and support whenever you want to talk, but you need professional intervention, too.  Come here often and update us - we've been where you are, or somewhere similar.  :-)

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