Hi Suzy - those are great suggestions for you and all of us!!! From someone who it really is all happening and all at once (read my post about not wanting to do this alone anymore) - today has enough to worry about. You have to tell yourself that for your own sake (your sanity and peace) you must not borrow trouble that hasn't happened yet. When it happens you will worry about it but please don't allow that train to go down the tracks. Visualize a STOP sign and say "no!" "this has not happened. I am thankful for my job, I am thankful for...all the things you are worrying about. Just a suggestion. Feel better.
DX: chronic migraine, cervical degeneration, depression/anxiety
RX: Wellbutrin, Lexapro, Soma, Immitrex
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