Posted 10/21/2006 11:48 AM (GMT -6)
I guess that's what bothers me, I had a pretty good week and now I feel like I'm almost back to square one. I need to be cleaning also, but just don't really care if it gets done or not....dishwasher is broken too, yuck......there are times I would like to get in my car and just drive away and disappear. I hope your son has a good party, I don't think the kids will care if the playroom is messy, ours always is. LOL
Posted 10/22/2006 9:03 AM (GMT -6)
Well you can only do so much...it is going to be there weither you worry about it or not.  He could lose his job tomorrow or he could be employed for 30 more years and stressing on it isnt going to help any.  You said you have a plan in place act on it and keep working on it and dont look towards tomorrow, just concentrate on today and what you have to do today.  Tomorrow will work itself out it always has a way of doing that.

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Posted 10/22/2006 9:27 AM (GMT -6)
Yeah, that's what bugs me the most, there is nothing at the moment to say he will loose his job, I'm just stuck in a "what if" cycle. That's what is driving me crazy. For the most part we won't know anything for probably three or four weeks, and then it's all up in the air after that. I just can't seem to get it out of my head that it will all be bad.
Posted 10/22/2006 9:38 AM (GMT -6)
Hmmm, it sounds as if the problem is with husbands job right?  It may or may not last?  Has he been looking for other employment in the mean time just incase something should happen?  The internet has made job searching so easy and even applying for jobs that he could submit his resume online.  Granted I dont know what he does and what area you live in and such but if I were in that situation I would like to think I would be proactive and look for other employment instead of wait around for my job to end.  Especially since you have a house payment and kids with responsiblities you need to know that your husband has job security and right now he doesnt have that.
I dont want to sound harsh I am just trying to give you some ideas to hopefully help alleviate some of your worries or give you some plans of action.  I dont know.... eyes

Elisha
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Posted 10/22/2006 10:42 AM (GMT -6)
The main problems are that we can't sell the house right now, so if he were to loose his job and had to get a job in another state, we would probably loose the house. There is not much where we are now that he could move onto. He has been looking, just in case, but there isn't much out there for us where we are.
Also more than likely he would end up with a serious paycut, that would really throw us for a loop. He is not a man that would sit around and he has given me every confidence that it will all be ok, I just can't seem to get it out of my head how bad things could get. I want to believe that it will all be ok and work out, but for some reason I just can't. That's where my troubled thoughts come in and take over and not wanting to deal with it anymore.

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