Slowly, i know you didn't ask for advice but please, please take care of your Son. You really do have a responsibility to him before your Husband. Physical violence is UNACCEPTABLE and could scar your child for life. He is a child and shouldn't be expected to be perfect, especially if he is handicapped in any way, with ADD and depression. It's admirable that you could get your husband into counseling, I hope that you keep going. Please tell the therapist the severity of the situation with your Son. It is not just going to get better on its own. The violence could escalate and become more serious. Play the movie forward and think about
how you are going to feel if anything bad happens to your Son. I'm glad that you have contacted people who can help you. That is the first step. I will pray for healing for you and your family.
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