I am going to go into the man's mind right about now (not saying it is the right way to think) He might be having a hard time with this because in his mind,he is thinking he did his job by getting you pregnant,and he can't understand why you are not happy. Men are very simple. They only see black and white. And trying to get any type of emotion out of most of them is like pulling teeth. Now,saying that. Him calling your phys and telling her you are having problems,is his way of reaching out to help you.
Quite frankly,you are never going to get the emotion out of him that you expect.
But,when you get to the hospital,and he see's his child born,that in itself will probably change him in more ways than one. My brother was the toughest,less emotional man I had ever met,until he saw his daughter being born,he came out of the delivery room and flew into my arms and broke. It changed him forever.
I guess what I am saying is,first watch for the little things he does...making you dinner,buying your favorite ice cream without being told. Remember they are not like women,and quite frankly could you really live with him if he became a sappy man,instead of a strong man that is trying to hold everything together and be tough? That is his way of keeping things sane. When baby is born,I bet he will step up to the plate and be the man of the house,making sure you have everything you and the baby needs.
Good luck ,and just remember,when your son or daughter is born,once you hold that baby in your arms and you realize they are part of you. Your life will never be the same.
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