Actually it's funny you say that, he actually is a sappy guy, and I'm more of a black and white thinker. But that is one reason we get along so well, we aren't exactly the 'normal couple; (not that there is any normal
Unfortunately he doesn't do anything without being told though, which is one of the main problems. But I think his thing is more that he gets so upset because I am upset, and so he can't handle the emotions and runs away from them. I don't blame him, I just don't know how to get him to be more understanding of me. I tried explaining to him that when I'm upset, I'm not mad at him, I'm just upset, but he gets angry/frustrated at me whenver I'm upset. It's just very frustrating, because I know I'm not going to get much better after the kid comes out, and I worry that he'll just keep leaving more and more often.
I did want him to call my psychiatrist, but I think he lied to me and never did. I doubt that she'd just not call back for over a week when notified that I'm having issues. I should just call her I guess, but I don't think there's anything she can do unfortunately. Oh well. Thanks for the feedback though!! At least I can vent on here when he walks out on me when I'm crying Makes me feel a little less alone at least.