my comcernfor you and your situation is enuine. my sence of humor is, admitedly, an aquired taste. my way of expressine myself is often contentious. if you feel i offended you, it is only because i thought i saw you falling undera bus and cared more abut saving you the pain and hurt than about salving your feelings. your last post on the previous thread is saying something totallt different fromyour first psot on that tread. i respond to what i am presented.
els is absolutely right about going to your pcp fiirst to get a referrel. if my dr acted like yours did, i would fire him or kick his b*tt. but that's me and each person has to find their own way. if you see any other drs (like an ob/gyn) you might ask them for a referral. all drs are more likely to accept a referrel from another dr than to accept a cold call.
many yrs ago i called a hospital, told theri physician referral service person my situation, and they made me an apt within an hr for see the dr within a week. this particular dr's office had told me they were not accepting new patients.
i hater to say this, but it seemslike some kind so sick game and we are the pawns. i don't like being a pawn any more than you do; that's why i learned the game and how to win most of e time.
i hope this helps.